tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5952193241386833473.post1710899628446277193..comments2023-04-14T05:13:46.127-04:00Comments on An ACOD's World: An Unplanned HiatusAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10450207612678036243noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5952193241386833473.post-43744110180510629972011-06-10T10:17:15.532-04:002011-06-10T10:17:15.532-04:00Weeelll. It won't sound like encouragement but...Weeelll. It won't sound like encouragement but I mean it to be. For me, things weren't more comfortable until about a year and a half after my dad got remarried. The remarriage bit is rough for everyone I think, but it was particularly bad for me because my dad used me emotionally as a surrogate spouse growing up and I was suddenly displaced.<br /><br />I think the thing that's hard here is the scope of all the CHANGE. And that doesn't settle until one or both parents are remarried, and then the adjustment period to that. THEN things stop switching all the time. Then you start to know what to expect. When my parents' divorce went through, it was just a day that something came in the mail. I thought it would feel bigger somehow, but it didn't. There was more road to walk before finding a peaceful place, but I can absolutely say I am coming out of this now. Hang in there.Grown Daughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02595995457791395098noreply@blogger.com